No matter how used to dating we can be, there is always stuff we will be worried about. How will things unfold tonight? What am I supposed to propose as a date activity at this point in the relationship? When will we see each other again? Does he/she wants to see me again at all? Are we boyfriend and girlfriend now? Is it official now?

In other words, our head just won’t stop. However, there are ways and tricks to make events unfold in a way more natural and stress free fashion. Follow these tips so that your dates are simply a series of enjoyable events you’re always looking forward to, instead of a puzzle to bring back home.

Always end dates on a high note

There is no rule book or buzzer to tell you when it’s time to bring the date to an end, so you have to feel it. Since men are usually expected to lead, they should take care of this. Watch if your woman is getting tired, hungry and more importantly have something else to do after the date or a place to go back to. Sure you guys could stay up all night and keep it going, but it would kill the excitement and mystery of missing and thinking about each other before the next date. Also, in all cases, don’t plan your next date when putting this one to an end. No matter if you are worried that the other person might not want to see you again or if you are both dying to be together again, don’t force each other to decide on the spot what’s going to happen next. This can create heavy discomfort and bad things to think about back home if the “negotiation” for the next date didn’t go well. Neediness and rejection can be both misinterpreted here so do not take any risks. Say you’ve had a great time, say goodnight and just call each other when the time is right.

Switch or merge topics and activities in order to keep things exciting and unpredictable

Constantly have tons of things to do and talk about. Don’t waste them all out in boring conversations on the phone. Dates are also way more interesting when all sorts of things are happening at the same time, instead of talking a single topic to death before switching. Don’t wait until you two are bored to make a move. A great technique is to keep interrupting conversation topics and activities intentionally to have the option to bring them back later. This way you will always have something interesting to do and say.

Feel his/her personality type, than state your intentions accordingly

Finally, figure out if he/she is a straightforward person or someone that likes to be a bit more subtle. In any in those cases, one of you (traditionally the man) will have to state his intentions about what he wants the two of you to be.

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