Does becoming attractive mean becoming someone else? Yes, but only in a way. Modifying behaviors is part of becoming the “new you” and you must accept that. However, if you’re asking yourself how you can become attractive using elements and attributes you already possess, read on the following advice. They are only meant to make the most potential out of what you already have.

Bring together your qualities from your different social circles

Most of us can’t deny it, we all act a bit different depending on who we’re hanging out with. Sometimes we can be funnier while being with our friends than with our date because we’re scared of being judged. However, it is wrong to put aside such a great quality as being funny depending on who’s around you. You do not need to hide any part of your personality to anyone. You just need to adapt it. For example, the funny and comedian side of you might always come up with twisted and funny visions of situations, just deliver them in a more subtle manner if you are with your date. Use words that won’t make him/her jump on his/her chair. Your friends are probably able to handle a bit more raw and crass humor than your date. Just remember that and you will be fine.

Be honest and live in a judgement-free environment

Being judgmental towards others and being affected by people’s judgement will make you act different from normal, this is no secret. If you modify who you are because of your ego and the opinion of the rest of the world, people will have trouble appreciating you. Someone trying to please others and that is judgmental every once in a while can be cute, but people will not want to stay around for a long time around such a person. Try to be honest about who you are and what you really think deep down, and once you express yourself, don’t second think or justify yourself according to people’s reactions. If you really do shock someone without meaning to, sincerely apologize to that person, but don’t adjust to them if you said what you truly believe. If they have trouble digesting what you just said, let them do so. After all, if they don’t like who you are, it’s up to them to decide whether they want to be part of your life or not.

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